Form a young age, it is evident that boys and girls are raised differently. And yes we are a different. But what about the way we are socialized?
According to the South African Medical Research Council a woman is killed every eight hours making the femicide rate five times higher than the global average. In South Africa, more than 1 000 women are killed by an intimate partner each year. Intimate partner femicide is the leading cause of the murder of women.
Violence against women has been on the rise and the perpetrators are getting younger and younger. We have to ask ourselves what is wrong with society, what is wrong with men, what is wrong our police or justice system? We need to dig deeper, constantly challenge conversations about the way we treat women every day, not only raise our flags and voices when it’s 16 Days of Activism Against Women and Children where campaign and tweet about gender based violence. More has to be done because women encounter violence everyday.
Speeches that simply condemn acts of violence are not enough.
The idea that a women is a prized possession, often gives the impression that you are someone’s property to do with as the please. If that’s the case, wouldn’t you handle your most precious possession with the utmost respect and care? The problem is there is no respect for women. Why is that? Why is there so much brutality towards women?
- Women are not property.
- Women want the freedom to move without fear.
- Women want respect, love and care.
- Women want to be heard.
It is time for both men and boys to be more empathetic and involved in speaking out against women abuse calling out those who say things that may manifest physically even though it’s said jokingly. If men took a stand against violence because not all men are trash, but what are you doing that sets you apart?
I’ll be posting more in this issue since I can’t cover everything in one post. Please share your thoughts on how we can change the horrific acts of violence against women and children.
I would love to hear from the men out there, how are making a difference?